When most people think of divorce, they picture a heated courtroom battle. While that is sometimes necessary, many couples find success through Mediation. Here is how they compare: Feature Mediation Litigation (Court) Control You and your spouse decide the outcome. A Judge makes the final decisions. Privacy Confidential and held in private offices. Public record in a courtroom. Speed Usually faster; scheduled at your convenience. Bound by the court’s crowded calendar. Cost Generally lower due to fewer formal filings. Higher due to trial prep and expert witnesses. Which should you choose? If there is high conflict or a power imbalance, litigation ensures your rights are protected by a judge. If both parties are willing to negotiate, mediation often results in a more amicable future for the family.